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When it comes to teaching toddlers to read, high-frequency words (like the, and, said) often appear again and again. But instead of memorizing these words in isolation, let’s help our little learners understand how they work!
Start by connecting these words to sounds and patterns your child already knows. For example, when learning can and man, point out that both share the –an word family. This helps children recognize spelling patterns and strengthens their ability to decode new words later.
You can also make high-frequency word practice fun! Try word hunts in favorite storybooks—ask your child to spot how many times they can find “the.” Or use magnetic letters to build the word, sound it out together, and talk about any “tricky” parts.
By blending play with purposeful reading instruction, parents can nurture both confidence and comprehension. Remember: the goal isn’t quick memorization, but developing the foundational skills that make reading feel natural. Every small moment of connection and discovery builds a stronger reader—and it all starts with curiosity, conversation, and a few well-chosen words.
You’ve probably seen the videos online: toddlers reciting the entire alphabet or identifying sight words before they’re even out of diapers. It’s easy to feel a little "parent guilt" and wonder, “Should I be doing more? Are we behind?” Here is the secret that literacy experts wish every parent knew: Reading doesn’t actually start with the alphabet. For a two-year-old, the journey to becoming a lifelong reader isn’t about memorizing the letter "A" on a flashcard. It’s about the way they hear the rhythm of a song, the way they point at a picture of a dog, and even the way they "read" the logo on a cereal box. These are called pre-reading skills, and they are the secret sauce to making school much easier down the road. In this post, we’re skipping the boring drills and diving into five playful, high-impact activities you can do at home today to build your toddler's "reading brain"—no flashcards required. For a more detailed checklist, check out our free Digital Download: Early Reading Assessment!
The "I Spy" Sound Game | How to do it: While playing or eating lunch, say, "I spy with my little eye, something that starts with the /mmmm/ sound." Wait for them to point to the milk or their mouth. The Secret Sauce: This builds Phonemic Awareness. It teaches your child to hear the individual sounds that make up words, which is the #1 predictor of future reading success.
Grocery Store "Logo Hunt" | How to do it: Next time you’re at the store, ask your toddler to find the "big yellow M" for McDonald's or the "red circle" on the Target sign. The Secret Sauce: This is called Environmental Print. When a child "reads" a Cheerios box, they are learning that those shapes on the package represent a specific idea. It’s their very first step into the world of symbols.
The "Wait for It..." Story Method | How to do it: As you read a familiar sentence, stop right before the last word. For example: "Brown Bear, Brown Bear, what do you...?" and wait for them to shout out "SEE!" The Secret Sauce: This builds Predictive Logic and active listening. It turns reading from a passive activity (just listening) into an active one where they are "co-authoring" the story with you.
Sensory "Salt Tray" Scribbling | How to do it: Pour a thin layer of salt, flour, or sand into a cookie sheet. Show them how to use their finger to draw a big circle or a "wiggly snake" line. The Secret Sauce: This develops Fine Motor Skills and "tactile memory." By feeling the resistance of the sand, their brain is mapping out the movements they will eventually use to write the letter "S" or "O."
The Silly Rhyme Remix | How to do it: Sing a common nursery rhyme but swap the last word for something ridiculous. "Twinkle, twinkle, little... CHEESE!" * The Secret Sauce: If your toddler laughs or corrects you, it means they are successfully processing Rhyme Recognition. They are learning to anticipate patterns in language—a skill they'll need when they start "sounding out" words later.
Instead of reading the book from beginning to end, I started opening it and saying:
"Let's Play I Spy!"
We’d flip through pages and hunt for:
Words that start with the same sound as his name
Letters she recognized
Objects that made a familiar sound
We didn’t read the story at all—and that was the point.
This shifted reading from sitting and listening to actively participating. My toddler stayed engaged longer because he had a job to do.
📌 Why it works:
This builds phonemic awareness and print awareness—two foundational reading skills—without requiring attention to the full story.
One thing I noticed early on was that my toddler couldn’t focus until he had moved his body.
So instead of saying, “Let’s sit and read,” I tried this:
Read one page
Do a quick movement (jump, clap, march)
Read another page
Repeat
Sometimes we acted out an animal from the book. Sometimes we jumped every time we saw a certain letter.
Reading became something we did together, not something that required stillness.
📌 Why it works:
Movement helps toddlers regulate their bodies, which actually improves focus—not the other way around.
This was a strategy I stumbled into by accident.
One day, my toddler pulled pages out of a board book (yes, I cried a little). But instead of tossing it, I laid the pages out and said:
“Can we put the book back together?”
We talked about:
Which page comes first
What picture looks like the beginning or end
What we remember from each page
Sometimes we got it “wrong”—and that was okay.
📌 Why it works:
This builds story structure, sequencing, and print awareness—all critical early literacy skills—without ever asking a toddler to sit still.
If your toddler won’t sit still for books, it doesn’t mean:
They don’t like reading
They’re not ready
You’re behind
It means they’re a toddler.
Reading success doesn’t come from perfect storytime routines. It comes from consistent, pressure-free exposure to print, sounds, and language—in ways that feel doable for your child and you.
When I stopped chasing stillness and started chasing engagement, reading finally clicked in our home.
And it can in yours too.